Everybody writes about how to be successful in life. But I’m going to tell you to be a super flop in every aspect of your life and to enjoy a life full of frustration and failure. So, let’s know how you can be unsuccessful.
However, if you want to, you may also learn about what you should avoid in order to be successful. Again, wishing to be successful is not enough; in order to be truly successful, you must put everything you have into it. You can be successful if you are willing to struggle and hustle.
1. Wait For The Perfect Time
There are many people who want to be successful in their lives but always wait for the perfect time to start taking action. They are too afraid to commit to their dreams and to the lives of their dreams. They are scared of taking risks. They want a guarantee that they will not fail.
So you have to be like them in order to fail in your life. Always wait for the perfect time to work on your dreams. Maybe you are actually waiting for the perfect time? If yes, then congrats, you too are going to be unsuccessful.
But if you want to succeed. Stop waiting for the perfect time, as it never comes. Make a goal and start taking action now. Don’t wait any longer, because it is always the right time for the right action.
2. Listen to Stupid People
Here is the best ingredient for the recipe of flop life which is “always listen to stupid people”. The best way to push yourself towards an unsuccessful life is to listen to stupid and toxic people. Many of us are living the life chosen by someone else and that person can be our parents or someone with a major influence in our life. It isn’t always right to do what your parents tell you to do. My parents always wanted me to find a decent job to secure my future, and here I am doing what I love to do and making money while doing it. This is my success because success is not always about money, it is also about happiness and lifestyle.
If you don’t want to be successful, never listen to what successful people tell you, but always listen to the stupid people or your friends or relatives who are broke and always have a problem with every solution. Also, if you fail, which is obvious, you can always blame them for your failure.
3. Ask God For Help
Another way to be a super failure in your life is to wait for God’s helping hand that will bless you with everything you dreamt of. There is no need for hard work. Just pray and ask God to give you a successful life full of happiness and then sit until God listens to your prayers.
Make your requests to God, and if you’re feeling ambitious, set a deadline for him because you’re in a hurry. But keep in mind that if you lift a finger to assist yourself, you may insult God by being so desperate.
But if you want to be successful, then always keep this thing in mind: God helps those who help themselves. So work hard to achieve success, and eventually, God is going to help you somehow.
4. Show Off And Be Copy Cat
Start copying your broke friends with negative worth and unhappy relatives to be unsuccessful in life. Buy the shoes you can’t afford just to show off or go party every weekend to show your fake success. You don’t have to worry about your money, or saving and investing, because if you do that, you may become successful. So you spend your money on materialistic items and travel to exotic locations. So that you can show your friends that you are rich and successful when you are totally broke.
Who gives a damn about saving and investing? The goal here is to imitate what the others are doing. Creating passive income streams is an annoyance that you should not think about. What about banks and credit card companies? So whatever you owe them, they’re thieves with too much money; they don’t need yours.
5. Take Advantage
Take advantage of others without thinking about the consequences, as all you think is that you’ll probably never have to deal with them again. And in a work environment, take credit for others’ work without thinking twice. If something goes wrong, it’s only their mistake, not yours.
But if you want to be successful, never use anybody else or even try to take advantage of a situation. Even if you become successful by taking advantage of others, no one is going to respect you.
6. Fake Your Reality
If everyone is telling you that you are wrong, then go ahead and create your own fake reality. Like, if someone tells you that you should save or invest your money, ignore them and spend more money. As money is the root of all evil, you should not keep the money to yourself, don’t even in an emergency situation.
If someone tells you to quit smoking or any of the bad habits, tell them that we all have one life, so we should enjoy it no matter how harmful that habit is to our body and mind.
7. Never Keep Promises
When you promise to be present at a meeting or other important event, it is perfectly acceptable to change your mind without informing the other party. Make a commitment, but it is not necessary to take it seriously. Make promises, but you don’t need to keep them at your convenience. Be flexible with your commitments and promises and ignore them if you don’t want to keep them.
If they tell you or complain about being a free spirit and breaking the commitment you made to them, ignore them as they are jealous of you and will never understand you. You should keep your commitments and promises to those who are beneficial to you.
Leave others. You should not commit to your own success as it totally depends on your fate and God’s will. Hard work and hustling for success have nothing to do with your success, so just pray to God to make you successful and rest until God listens to your wishes.
8. Don’t Blame Yourself
If you fail or do not succeed, even after you ordered God to do this for you, always blame others. It should never be your fault. So, if you take responsibility for your failure and try to learn from your mistakes, you may become successful. So don’t make this mistake because your goal is to fail in your life.
There are plenty of excuses to choose for your failure. Like, if you don’t get promoted, it may be because of your skin color, your gender, or maybe your boss is not able to see your performance. If you don’t find anyone to blame for your failure, it’s good to blame your fate and god. Maybe it’s not your fate to be successful.
A wise man once said, “A man can fail many times, but he isn’t a failure until he begins to blame somebody else.” But you don’t have to care because you failed, not because of your dumbness, so why blame yourself? blame others.
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